Monday, June 24, 2019
Authors Posts by Hakan Arabacioglu

Hakan Arabacioglu

Hakan Arabacioglu
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My Job is to Question The Unquestioned

So many of us are leading our lives on the basis of things we have never questioned the reasons for or the validity of,...

Why Are Streets Full Of People That Are All Alike?

The system we grew up in doesn't teach us to be ourselves. Very few ask, “What do I want? What would make me happiest in...

Do You Take Yourself Where You Go?

Once upon a time, a wise man was wandering in a harbor with a friend. They saw a man who held his head between...

What have you done Nuri Alço?

I was talking to a friend a few days ago. She is an educated, beautiful young lady. She complains about not being able to find...

Why Does He Do It?

One of my counselees told me about her boyfriend and asked me: ‘Why does he text to her ex-girlfriend when he is with me?’ I...

If You Hurry, Slow Down and Stay Within Yourself

City life is very noisy. We become unable to hear our inner voice because of this noise. We aren’t even aware of what we really...

Whose Lover Are You Looking For?

One of my counselees has lately told me that she wanted a tall boyfriend. She even told me that she immediately eliminated any men...

What do you feel? What do you need?

Eventhough what I talk about usually depends on the questions I ask and the answers given by the participants , we sometimes have dialogues...

How Do You Get a Noisy Kid to Be Quiet?

I recently paid a visit to my friend Merve. As the two of us talked, her six-year-old daughter was running around and playing with...

If He Seems Distant, First Get Closer to Yourself

“My husband keeps himself distant!” I sometimes hear this statement from my counselees. I find it quite strange because something can only be as...

Create a Lover out of Nothing

Women often say something during my seminars: “There are no suitable men for me." They then try their best to convince me of this,...

How About What You Really Want?

We all heard many definitions as we were raised. Our minds are full of concepts that are either good or bad.