You were dazzled when you saw her, or maybe you weren’t dazzled but you liked her, or maybe you only wanted to spend the night with her, but does she like you? How can you know?
It was 1992, and I was thoroughly enjoying my time at the great Toros High School. It was also my last beautiful days in Mersin, and during this beautiful time, I fell in love with a beautiful girl.
Now a real person is sleeping next to you, rather than a cat or a teddy bear. Some nights in bed, you find yourself looking over with astonishment and thinking, “I still can’t believe it. Are you real?” You can’t believe your countless years of loneliness are over.
For years, you’ve spent your nights cuddling with your pillow or your cat. Occasionally, you woke up with someone next to you, but that was all. It was just a person to chat, giggle, and have sex with, but it was no more than that.
Everything! Maybe it would be clearer if we substituted the word “man” with “man you’ve fallen in love with.”
In the first part of our article, we learned who this 'spiritual woman' was. Now let’s explore how you can meet such a woman.
Why is it that some relationships fail? I put this piece together based on my own experiences and observations, as well as what my clients and I have discovered together.