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My Job is to Question The Unquestioned
By Hakan Arabacıoğlu• May 24, 2019So many of us are leading our lives on the basis of things we have never questioned the reasons for or the validity of, and…
Why Are Streets Full Of People That Are All Alike?
By Hakan Arabacıoğlu• May 24, 2019The system we grew up in doesn’t teach us to be ourselves. Very few ask, “What do I want? What would make me happiest in life?” Even…
Do You Take Yourself Where You Go?
By Hakan Arabacıoğlu• May 18, 2019Once upon a time, a wise man was wandering in a harbor with a friend. They saw a man who held his head between his…
What have you done Nuri Alço?
By Hakan Arabacıoğlu• May 18, 2019I was talking to a friend a few days ago. She is an educated, beautiful young lady. She complains about not being able to find the…Why Does He Do It?
By Hakan Arabacıoğlu• May 17, 2019One of my counselees told me about her boyfriend and asked me: ‘Why does he text to her ex-girlfriend when he is with me?’ I…
If You Hurry, Slow Down and Stay Within Yourself
By Hakan Arabacıoğlu• May 17, 2019City life is very noisy. We become unable to hear our inner voice because of this noise. We aren’t even aware of what we really…Whose Lover Are You Looking For?
By Hakan Arabacıoğlu• May 16, 2019One of my counselees has lately told me that she wanted a tall boyfriend. She even told me that she immediately eliminated any men who…
What do you feel? What do you need?
By Hakan Arabacıoğlu• May 16, 2019Eventhough what I talk about usually depends on the questions I ask and the answers given by the participants , we sometimes have dialogues such…
How Do You Get a Noisy Kid to Be Quiet?
By Hakan Arabacıoğlu• January 20, 2018I recently paid a visit to my friend Merve. As the two of us talked, her six-year-old daughter was running around and playing with her…If He Seems Distant, First Get Closer to Yourself
By Hakan Arabacıoğlu• January 15, 2018“My husband keeps himself distant!” I sometimes hear this statement from my counselees. I find it quite strange because something can only be as distant…
Create a Lover out of Nothing
By Hakan Arabacıoğlu• January 25, 2017Women often say something during my seminars: “There are no suitable men for me.” They then try their best to convince me of this, but…How About What You Really Want?
By Hakan Arabacıoğlu• February 3, 2016We all heard many definitions as we were raised. Our minds are full of concepts that are either good or bad.
